tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post1496487316203245050..comments2024-03-01T13:51:17.228+05:30Comments on Emancipation of Eve: The man, the boss and the rapistJhoomur aka JBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11863377244719408313noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-74909872313734308212013-04-26T18:10:48.357+05:302013-04-26T18:10:48.357+05:30you right, niceyou right, niceCerita dewasahttp://cerita-dewasas.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-16522444729610143452009-05-24T22:35:59.554+05:302009-05-24T22:35:59.554+05:30Even though I agree with most of this post, I woul...Even though I agree with most of this post, I would like to say that it is kind of unfair to ask the women who use their looks and more to advance their career to kind of stop doing it for the sake of other women. Even if a woman is "easy" or the "office slut", and has led the boss on to that point in the bedroom, Rape is still a different game. At this point,if the man tries to force himself on her inspit of her repeated NOs, it is still RAPE! no matter what she has done to bring things to this point, it is not her fault. And there is a wide difference between a man in a position of power who has been led onto this point where he thought his advances would be welcome and a real rapist.Gomeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00421050170392541754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-19319489062578207942007-12-14T17:33:00.000+05:302007-12-14T17:33:00.000+05:302. When we talk of dos and dont's for people viz t...2. When we talk of dos and dont's for people viz their interaction with the opposite sex, arent we in a very polite way asking them to NOT BE HIMSELF/HERSELF?<BR/>Are we not un-intentionally encouraging exactly what we dont want them to do, i.e., PRETEND?Enigmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17960651857144982189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-64885031664274749592007-12-14T17:29:00.000+05:302007-12-14T17:29:00.000+05:30Read a couple of ur posts; A couple of questions f...Read a couple of ur posts; A couple of questions for you -<BR/><BR/>1. As per you and girls of ur kind as you say, a guy with better intelligence, communication and other such attributes scores over someone who is handsome yet doesnt posses the same qualities. To this I would like to put u across a hypothetical situation...<BR/><BR/>Suppose u are in a party and u see a couple of guys right opposite to you, both strangers to you (so u know nothing about their nature and "qualities") but one of them is handsome hunk, good looking and the other is a lesser mortal, both decently dressed. <BR/><BR/>Now supposing u were given a chance to speak to one of them on the condition that u will never ever get to speak to the other one, WHOM WOULD U APPROACH ? Be honest and answer. Maybe u will see the point. <BR/><BR/>PS : Same holds true for guys who claim that looks of a girl dont matter. <BR/><BR/>The fact of the matter is, LOOKS MATTER unless u dont know the person. ITS THE FIRST ATTRACTION.Enigmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17960651857144982189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-50323639858856714602007-12-14T10:58:00.000+05:302007-12-14T10:58:00.000+05:30Very well said Maxine.Very well said Maxine.Jhoomur aka JBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11863377244719408313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-90832348880950404712007-12-13T19:34:00.000+05:302007-12-13T19:34:00.000+05:30The wife had previously asked me on one of her rar...The wife had previously asked me on one of her rare visits to the office about her husband.At that time I wasnt aware.So..it was easy to tell her later.And i guess she was looking for a reason too.<BR/><BR/>I think women always need to be in a supportive circle of friends who will keep inspiring her to speak up.I mean,knowing that there is a support system is defenitely better than having none and wondering what she should do.Because none ,even if they are the types who would do lil this n that for their career,would not even think that they will be actually Raped or attempted by someone.<BR/><BR/>Women are tortured every where,around the world...,even in countries where one can pick girls from the street or willingly go all the way on a second date.So like Eve has written here, its about dominance,power etc.Makes me firm on my thought that men are only physically stronger than women and they know it too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-13589848306491545522007-12-13T13:10:00.000+05:302007-12-13T13:10:00.000+05:30What does one do with women who ae willing prey fo...What does one do with women who ae willing prey for such abuse? what do you tell them? How does one woman convince the other that what actually happened was RAPE, it should be taken seriously? For your sake, for the sake of the other women, the wife and the kid. Where does the buck stop? Surprisingly the women who are subject to such abuse are extreamly free minded women who have taken some of the toughest decissions of their lives on their own and have been great help ottherwise to the troubles of womankind. Is it fear or do the guts suddenly turn jelly? What is it that prevents a woman to speak up? Again... Where does the buck stop?The Time Travellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12366311487424068940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-59072993748956708342007-12-13T11:25:00.000+05:302007-12-13T11:25:00.000+05:30Yo SB,also means "authentic; true"..therefor an 'a...Yo SB,<BR/>also means "authentic; true"..therefor an 'authentic rapist'. Make sense?<BR/><BR/>Cynic...wrt animals, havent read wrong. Though there's a difference, animals DON'T rape. They sniff crotches and if the subject of their sniffing does not respond, they go sniff other crotches. Rats rape though.<BR/><BR/>Maxine... good job and you got lucky too. Usually, wives/partners of such men are the hardest to convince. Unfortunately more often than not, the partners of such men turn a blind eye... and, I really cannot blame them...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-40301863230708320752007-12-12T12:58:00.000+05:302007-12-12T12:58:00.000+05:30I agree with every written word of this post. Is i...I agree with every written word of this post. <BR/><BR/>Is it that women do not realise the harm that they are doing to themselves and those around them? I would not like to believe so. With the general workplace policies of today, truly speaking, women can take such men to task and teach them a freaking good lesson (which these men do deserve). <BR/><BR/>I have heard of such incidents earlier too. And at times the reasoning given by women who are still at the nascent stage of such attention (e.g., Oh, I can further my career and achieve my goals harnessing the interest my Boss is showing in me. I can do the kind of work that i want to and then chuck the organization when I have achieved my ends.) is astoundingly flabbergasting to a bystander/ Friend. <BR/><BR/>I sincerely hope that the maximum number of women do read this Post and decide to do something about such incidents. <BR/><BR/>DEAR WOMEN, PLEASE UNDERSTAND. YOU ARE EMPOWERED IN THE PRIMARY SENSE OF THE WORD WHEN IT COMES TO SUCH INCIDENTS. DO NOT EXCUSE THEM, TAKE ACTION UPON THEM. THESE ARE NOT FORGIVABLE ACTIONS OF GOOD MEN. For the record, these are not men, they are as the writer of this post says, ANIMALS. and if i have read her wrong. Then please add this from my side.The Cynichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05609777930425001238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34788771.post-83777207059215078122007-12-12T12:40:00.000+05:302007-12-12T12:40:00.000+05:30Bonafide means well intentioned. No RAPIST can eve...Bonafide means well intentioned. No RAPIST can ever be termed as good intentioned.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com